Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Soulmates Never Say Goodbye

Soulmates Never Say Goodbye

By Mita Bhan

 

Mita Bhan is a US Certified Psychic Tarot Reader and Holistic Healing Practitioner based in DLF City, India

 

"I thought he was my soulmate. Then why did he leave me?"


Many believe soulmates come for a reason and a season. Not every romance ends in wedding bells. And not every soulmate we meet is our romantic partner. But every soulmate comes to learn a lesson and something to teach our souls. One of the reasons he may have left could be because karmas were completed. He learnt what he needed to, or you learnt what you had to. Painful as it seems, some lessons may include letting go. Or most importantly learning to love unconditionally which is perhaps the greatest lesson we need to learn from our soulmates. If you can learn to love him whether or not he is in your life in a state of full acceptance you do evolve as a soul. And finally, soulmates do reappear in our lifetime. Sometimes we just know we are going to meet them again.

Do all soulmates have to be romantic?


Not at all. Soulmates are kindred spirits with whom we have a deep, inexplicable connection. There are lessons to share and a whole lot of love to discover. Soulmates can be family, friends, even co-workers! I believe my son is my soulmate and I remember the first time I discovered it. He was 3 months old, lying in my lap, our eyes met and it all made sense. And at the end of it both of us were laughing out loud with joy. Remember, we can have many soulmates. Each one of them special, unique and memorable.

My soulmate is my opposite. Can that be possible?


Absolutely. And doesn't it make life more interesting that way? When your qualities complement one another, there's more to learn. Take for instance a couple where one is an extrovert always looking for a reason to party, and the other one prefers to stay at home cuddling up in front of the television. They reach an understanding where they go out few nights a week stay home together for rest of the week. Each one has taught the other the importance of socializing and solitude, thus setting the balance.

Soulmates come in all shapes and sizes. And truly, one size doesn't fit all. When we learn to accept and appreciate our loved ones just as they are, with their strengths and their flaws we find a more peace and come a closer towards discovering the truest meaning of meeting your soulmate.

Missed reading the other fabulous articles on soulmates? Click here to read them:
Love Happens Out of the Blue and Ten Signs that He is Your Soulmate.

Mita Bhan can be contacted at: info@mitabhan.com