Everlasting Marital Love
The increasing divorce rates speak of the outcome of today's marriages. Modern marriages hardly last even in a country like India where culture plays a predominant role in the life style of people. Emerging divorce rates or marriages with perpetual strife are the state of today's marriages. But the most consoling fact is, apart from such disheartening marital problems, there are still couples who are engaged in marital bliss owing to a happy and a lasting relationship. Lets look into those factors that go into making love last in a marriage.
Firstly individuals who are in the pursuit of finding a partner should understand the fact that it can end up in a wild goose chase hunting for Mr. Right/Ms Right. The truth is, no two individuals are identical. So it is only possible to only look out for Mr. Right/Ms Right enough. Common thoughts and a matching wave length between the individuals to a certain extent coupled with the understanding of the blemishes in each other lays the ground for a mature and a lasting love.
The general expectation of a man is to be felt important by his spouse. The general expectation of woman is to be cherished by her spouse. So it necessary for a woman to make her spouse feel that he is very important to her. She should take on to appreciating him for his love and accomplishments. On the other hand it is necessary for a man to provide the psychological protection to his spouse. Cherishment includes emotional as well as financial support.
A hassle free life or a pain free life is that which paves way for a lasting relationship. This not only includes the financial aspect but also the effortless adaptability to things related to marriage. For example there is no point in marrying a very nice person living in some remote corner or country in the world. After all there are a lot of nice people everywhere or there is no point in marrying someone who is very wealthy but an equally arrogant person.
Any human relationship thrives on the recollection of words and actions. So try to work on your relationship as each and every pleasant or an unpleasant day contributes to the working or breaking of your marriage. Physical appearance is an important factor that has to be taken care of. So look into your looks to look good even with the passing of time. An active sex life is very essential for the working of a relationship. Sex is a biological need like sleep or hunger. Satiated bodily cravings keep one mentally happy and emotionally attached to the spouse.
So work your way for a blissful and a lasting relationship with your spouse.
